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I've lost my darling Katie

Today I had to put my lovely baby child Katie to sleep.  She'd been suffering from a very aggressive spinal cancer.  Friday she was fine.  By Monday she couldn't even stand or evacuate.  I spent the weekend in emergency rooms, as nobody knew what was the matter.  She was due to have a CT scan this afternoon, but the specialists were convinced it was a spinal cancer, as seen on the X-rays.

She was suffering, and it was hopeless, so I stroked her lovely head while she was put to sleep.  The last thing my lovely girl heard was me, telling her how much I love her and what a GOOD girl she is.  She left, cradled in my love.

She enriched my life beyond measure, and grew into from a shy, nervous girl to an exuberant, confident bull terrier who'd walk up to complete strangers, convinced everybody loved her - and they did.  She was wildly popular at my work, and people would flag me down to ask if they could come see her.

I just wanted my fellow bullie lovers to know. 


Mark

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  • BulliesofNCBulliesofNC Richlands, NC
    Mark,

    I can just imagine what you are going through. I know personally how hard it is to lose a dog that has been a part of the family for many years. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure she lived a wonderful life with the compassion and love you provided her. Cherish her memory and the joy she provided you and your
    family.

    Rest in Peace Katie.

     

    - Steve Gogulski
    "It's not just a Dog, it's a Bull Terrier!"
    www.bulliesofnc.com
  • This is the hardest part of loving and being loved by these awesome dogs x I'm so sorry for your loss x
  • Though there are no words to make your pain any easier I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. Your love for Katie shines through your beautiful words.
    Rest in peace miss Katie
  • Thank you all so much.  Though we are strangers, we are also family, united in our love for these wonderful dogs.

    I've had bull terriers for nearly 40 years now, and when the time comes I will adopt another rescue.  And we shall rescue each other.


  • philsergeantphilsergeant Palm City, Florida, USA
    edited May 2016
    Mark, I know it is not a very fair comparison ( because we are all losers ) but I defy anyone to tell me that losing ( most ) human friends and family is as devastating as losing a Bullie.
    i have been there too many times and know that it is far more crushing to lose a fur-friend that is totally devoted to you than many humans that are ( far too often) connected to their connections out of circumstance or convenience. I say this, not so much to devalue the human relationship experience, but to highlight the value of love received from those wonderful creatures that plainly and consistently demonstrate love for you JUST because they love you immensely .... Thinking of you in your pain and knowing that if Bullies are not in heaven already, I don't want to go there.
    In the beginning God created English Bull Terriers, in the image of EBT's, God created all other breeds.
  • philsergeantphilsergeant Palm City, Florida, USA
    P.S. If you could post a recent photo of Katie it will give us all an image with which to grieve, I don't believe you posted any earlier.
    In the beginning God created English Bull Terriers, in the image of EBT's, God created all other breeds.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • Absolutely devastating news, i am soooo sorry and heart broken for you. My babies are my kids (i don't have any human babies) and i just can't imagine the pain and hurt you are going through. Their love is simply unconditional and irreplaceable. My thought and prayers are with you in this tough time.
    Rest in peace Katie
  • I'd be happy to share some images of my baby girl

    http://s1160.photobucket.com/user/KatieJemima/slideshow/


    Thank you all so much, you're absolutely right.  Phil, I lost my mother in June of last year, and taking care of lovely Katie got me through it.  She and I were always very close, but this brought us even closer.  I got permission to take her to work with me every day, and she adored it. 

    She'd bark with excitement as I opened the door, then go look for the cleaning lady and bark at her while being fed a treat.  Then she'd have a settle-in until about 7:00AM, where I'd take her out for a quick walk.  Then back to her corral behind my desk for a bit, and so on.  She'd have lunch every day around 11:00 then go and meet people out on the quad.  They adored her, and she loved the whole adventure, because everywhere she went people just went crazy for her.

    She hated to go back home sometimes, she really wanted to stay and talk to more people.  I'm so glad her life had this last year of joy and pleasure for her.

    I'm now just feeling emptied out and hollow, and I miss my baby child very much.  But I do know she got all the love she could ever use, and no effort or expense was spared.  And yesterday was tremendously painful, but I know in my heart that it was the right thing to do.  My baby didn't suffer more than a very little time before she went ahead to wait for me.
  • philsergeantphilsergeant Palm City, Florida, USA
    Yes, the only consolation is when you absolutely know that you gave her all the love and care possible.... I really pity someone who loses such a prize and then realize that they only went 65% for the child... gotta be tough to live with that. Now I'm off to check Katie's photos....
    In the beginning God created English Bull Terriers, in the image of EBT's, God created all other breeds.
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