Such a sad desion

bigbear1tracey

Hi guys I've not been on for a bit as things have not been going well this end with the dogs and also I've been far to upset to discuss it as alot of u know I bought precious nearly 3 months ago now and it's been quite a battle with her behaviour as the people I got her off lied about everything to do with her I found myself with a beautiful ebt but at 5 months had no socialisation skills at all because she had not been socialised at all very aggressive towards everything and everyone one I worked really with getting her used to my dogs tge out side world even got her off the lead where she could run free but problems started about 3 weeks ago because of her dominance I have to observe her behaviour around the dogs every second they r out together as presious behaviour towards my other dog chaos mainly who is only a month older than her has started to become very unsettled around her she trys to play very aggressive which I try to stop constantly and he really does not like it to the point where he will just come and jump on my lap shaking his eyes popping out of his head and just in a state of panic chaos has alway been so obedient but he just will do nothing while she's around him he's constantly watching to see if she's coming near him and runs off with his tail between his legs she also makes a terrible noise when she wants out of her cage this leaves chaos shaking from head to foot and u can see the panic is his face it heartbreaking also sophie has starting showing signs of not being happy she will avoid contact to with precious because she just wants to rag her around the place too all my dogs r very lad back and have seemed to become really stressed out sophie has starting chewing her self to pieces too the other day I was out with precious and chaos at the park when precious start to react towards another dog so I quickly go her on the lead by this time the guy with this dog was a few meters away precious was going nuts the noise was hurenduss that she was making straight away this dog was in attack mode I could see he was reacting to her behaviour I was calling chaos to come back to me as he was going to nearer to this dog but he would not come back as he was terrified of precious and how she was kicking off it resulted in chaos getting attacked by this dog I was heartbroken to what had happened he was ok just a few nick's on him but it really opened my eyes to how her behaviour is starting to effect my other dogs and it's completely changing there temperaments and the worry that actually a fight could quite easily break out between my dogs because of what's going on and I have children to consider so after lots of thinking and tears I wasn't really left with much choice but to rehome her now I had to find someone who would take her on but no I thought because look how the people lied to me about her someone could do the same to me again I needed to do what's best for her so I decided to find a good ebt rescue there was a few I made sure I went for the best one and have managed to get her in there I spoke to a lovely lady and explained what was going on for hours I spoke to her at least this way she will not go to any one they will be vetted and she will be homed on her own because of her behaviour I'm so heartbroken to have to do this but I have no choice I have to think of my children and what's happening to my other dogs it just gone 1am and I can't sleep precious will be going at 7 am I just can't bare to see her face go but I know in my heart I can't keep her I'm so angry with the breeder why would u keep a pup till 5 months and not bloody socalize her if she had things would of been so different and I wouldn't have to be rehoming my beautiful girl sole destroying

BulliesofNC

@bigbear1tracey - Many of the Bull Terriers I've had to rescue had the same issues with dominance and aggression. Many were even raised and socialized with other dogs since they very young puppies. Unfortunately the negative temperament you see in Precious is often something they are born with and passed down genetically. Sadly many breeders concentrate no efforts into breeding for sound temperament and health and focus on appearance. many others focus on nothing at all except producing puppies with the available dogs they have which are capable of breeding. In America these breeders are often referred to as "Backyard Breeders." Puppy Mills are the same way but even worse because they care nothing about the dogs except for producing puppies. I know you fell in love with Precious the moment you saw her and her purchase cost was most likely far below normal value for a Bull Terrier but sometimes seeing availability of a 5 month old puppy often means the breeder doesn't have too many seeking their bloodline or they have no reputation. The only reason I mention this is because I know you feel terrible about having to rehome Precious but you need to realize she is just now coming into maturity and the dominance and aggression she is displaying now is not a good sign especially if she can't even learn to behave herself around the dogs she lives with and is around all day. The bad part about an aggressive or dominant dog is that when they do engage in a fight their issue becomes worse and makes it that much harder to train in order to adjust their temperament to become worry free around other dogs. These type of dogs will always be a worry and liability. They are also suited for homes with no other animals. Someone that adopts her and has no other animals to share the home with will cherish Precious and learn to leash her on her outings. I'm sure she'll find the perfect home where she'll do best. Don't beat yourself up about it. Just learn from it so next time you ever desire to get another dog you'll understand the importance of researching reputable breeders and familiarizing yourself with the qualities of their dogs.

exiled

@bigbear1tracey There were other people and animals to consider, and I think I would have made the same decision that you have.  It would not be fair to the other animals in your home to feel anxious or sad, and with children, safety is the most important thing to consider.

You gave Precious a chance, and you haven't given up on her.  As a matter of fact, you've given her a chance at the best situation for her.  You committed so much of yourself to her happiness, and this decision is reflective of your love for her. 

Wish this was easier, but we all know the correct choices are sometimes the hardest.  Sending you hugs. 

Gypsy123

So sorry to read this@bigbeartracy1,you gave your everything to give this girl a good home,but you have to think of your pack and family first.im sure there's another home waiting for her,maybe more suited to her needs.

bigbear1tracey

Thank u everyone for your comments I really do now understand why u have to buy a dog from a reputable breed I have no intentions of getting another dog but if I ever did I'd make sure I looked into it properly it was hearkbreaking to see her go I never slept all night I just layed on my sofa watching to time pass I can't believe the difference in all the dogs already today u wouldn't even know I had any dogs in the house I've just got to focus on chaos mainly to get his training back to how it was they also was over joyed to have there toys back as I couldn't have any down as precious was both dominate and aggressive over them I know I've done the right thing and made sure she went to somewhere who can find her a good home I'm thank full to the lady who as transported her as u pay for there transport jorney and to the lady tracey fletcher who is The bull terrier welfare trust chairperson for this foundation .

Roman

Really sorry to hear this I know how much hard work you put in but sometimes the hardest desicions are for the best in the long run head up u have nothing to be ashamed of you have gave it your all

bigbear1tracey

Thank u @roman I'm so upset sitting here crying just thinking of her not knowing what's going on and how she must be feeling wondering where we r hearkbroken for her I know I did and thank u it just hurts so much

bigbear1tracey

Seeing how relaxed my other babies r right now I know there was nothing more I could of done

philsergeant

Please try and keep track of Precious and her new home and even try and get photos / reports from her new family.

bigbear1tracey

Ii will I've just texted the lady to see how she is asked her if she wouldn't mind keeping me updated on precious.