Help with Rufus' Aggression
Hi Everyone:
I'm new here and just wanted to say how happy I was to find this website, I've been learning a lot from all of your posts - thank you!
I need advice/help for Rufus, a 10 month old bull terrier that has become aggressive towards strangers.
I'll provide as much information as I can below about Rufus and his behavior (apologies in advance as it is lengthy but I want to give as much detail as possible):
Let me start by saying, I didn't know anything about Bull terriers when I got Rufus. I was on a vacation in Costa Rica and saw him at a filthy market, the conditions were terrible. I decided to bring him home with me to NY and give him the American dream.
Therefore, I don't know anything about his parents or their behavior. He was also very young when I got him (only 2 months).
At about 3 months I started taking him outside and trying to socialize him. He was afraid of everything and hated walking. He would tuck his ears and tail and sit in place, I used treats to keep him moving. Finally he got used to cars and the noise from the outside world. He loved going to the dog park and playing with other dogs. BUT here's where I think I made a BIG mistake...everything I had read stressed the importance of socializing him with other dogs and I did not concentrate on socializing him with strangers...I figured he'd be fine with people just on his own.
Sure, I took him to the Vet, to my friend's apartment a few times, and to the pet store once or twice but I'm not sure if it was enough because I wasn't thinking about it- maybe only a handful of times during the socialization age. In retrospect I can remember people outside trying to pet him and saying "he's so cute" and he would always cower and look away or hide behind me. I never thought this was a big issue and imagined he'd grow out of it or that he just didn't like strangers.
The first time his fearful behavior turned into aggression was when he was around 6 months old. Someone at the dog park bent down to pet him, and he jumped and started nipping them...he did not break the skin but tore their pants. Amazingly enough I still didn't think there was a problem and shrug this off as a one time thing that went wrong.
After that he started jumping and biting at everyone who walked by if they were too close to him. (especially if they were jogging or biking or carrying luggage).
At 7 months he got neutered and someone told me this behaviour might go away but it got worse. I took him for an evaluation for a doggy day care place and when the guy came out to get him he tucked his ears and tail. The guy said he'd be fine but when he took him to another room and off the leash, Rufus bit his leg and broke the skin. (It wasn't too bad but the guy did bleed a little).
Basically he's only OK with the people that live at home with him ( Me, my Mom and my little sister) --- He barks at any visitors and I'm afraid to let them get close to him because he might bite them and I don't know how severe it will be. Outside, I have to walk in a way to avoid people. I can no longer take him to the dog park (even though he loves playing with dogs and has never shown any aggression towards dogs) because I fear he will bite someone and next time it will be too hard.
It breaks my heart, because I really do believe that his aggression is coming from fear.
I met 2 dog trainers and they both said he was really dangerous ( 1 of them kept saying he was abused which I know is impossible) the other wanted me to use punishment every time he lunged at someone (like yanking on a choke collar)--which I read can actually make things worse??
I hired an animal behaviorist that cost a fortune and used positive reinforcement methods. She concluded by the 3rd session that he needs medication and said he is 'psychotic' because she believes that he reacts within himself and not to triggers in his environment.
The thing is Rufus doesn't give too many signs before attempting to bite someone, the only thing he does is become very rigid. Sometimes he barks, not always. The behaviorsit was using treats to get him to warm up to her, and I could see he was rigid the whole time but since he was concentrating on the treats he would not bite her. The moment she stopped throwing treats he lunged. She said that this was not normal because she didnt move fast or do anything to trigger that, but I believe SHE was the trigger and he had just been waiting for a moment for her to look away...maybe that isn't normal and he does need medication? I don't know.
I'm not against medication, but I just want to do what's right for Rufus. I know I've done a lot of things wrong - he lacks basic obedience and jumps up and nips at me sometimes when he wants attention, but I never see him as threatening...in fact he's just a big doofus around me.
I'm very worried that his biting (to strangers) will only escalate and something awful may happen one day if I don't do something now.
Has anyone dealt with this? What do you recommend? Punishment, positive reinforcement, medication? is there any way I can cure this or will it always have to be watched?
Thank you so much!
Comments
Tell us more about his diet, his exercise routine... he must get a serious "tongue hanging out" workout daily... And conduct your "introduction" sessions when he is drained. I agree with the use of a prong collar to ensure he gets the message as he's probably getting really strong now.
One thing to keep in mind is that from the ages of 5 - 10 months a puppy can develop some nasty habits. I often hear about puppies in this age group having aggressiveness quirks even with their owners. Is almost as a test of dominance as the puppy is developing into maturity. Usually these negative behaviors go away when the puppy realizes their actions aren't welcomed or excepted by their owner.
Others may feel his aggression and fear exists from being abused. However, I disagree especially knowing hos young in age you received him. My opinion would be that Rufus may have been nutritionally neglected from 4-8 weeks of age. This may also contribute to his current weight and stature. Another concern would be that his aggression could very well be caused from genetics passed down from his parents. To me it sounds as though Rufus suffers from more of an anxiety and stress disorder which may stem from the development of his immune system. Often BT's like this develop some sort of negative psychological trait, i.e - Tail Chasing, thunder/loud noise phobias, and other fears.
My advice would be much the same as others have mentioned:
I wish Rufus was near by because I'd tell you to bring him over so I could spend some time with him. I understand you can't "Pin" him in public because people would probably look at you like your crazy. I also know that 99% of the trainers who deal with dogs don't have experience with Bull Terriers. There common approach to training Rufus may not be effective. I think if you find one or two of your friends and ask them for a little help it will do wonders. Bring him outside with a good muzzle on, and let your friend walk by him to see how he reacts. If he goes to strike then you can immediately disciple him in a manner like "Pinning Him" where he'll instantly realize his owner is displeased with his actions and he'll also know who's the dominant one in charge. Slowly start to introduce Rufus to your friend. Once he accepts him without acting aggressive bring in another stranger. As Rufus gets older and matures more you will see that his aggression will decrease and hopefully go away all together if you're working with him.
Everyone on this Forum will agree that a Bull Terrier wants to please their owner more than anything else including their impulse for any type of aggression. Use this to your advantage. I guarantee Rufus adores you and your family members. Let him know his current behavior isn't making YOU happy and will not be tolerated. When he realizes it he will adjust.
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